I have looked forward to being a mother since I was a little girl, for as long as I can remember. When I was little, I would play "house" with my friend Ashley Boyse and her younger siblings. I was ALWAYS the "mom." I've always loved little kids and babies. My parents say I have a gift with them, just like my Grandma Frances King who I get my middle name from.
Now that I am a mother to my own sweet baby, it has brought the most joy along with challenges. It is physically, mentally, and emotionally exhausting. But it is also rewarding in every way. When little William looks into my eyes, it melts my heart and soul. When he smiles and coos at me, I feel his love and I have so much love for him.
One day I was feeling overwhelmed in every way. I took little William in my arms and just held him as I silently cried. As I looked down at him, he was staring at me with such intent. It's like he could see into my soul and feel my pain. I felt like he knew how I was feeling, and he was sorry. And then, he started smiling and cooing at me. My heart melted completely. It was such a special moment with him.
Although it's challenging to be a mother to a baby who is so innocent and dependent for his every need, it is so humbling and sacred. Somehow I can feel my baby's love for me. And I feel my Heavenly Father's love for me as I care for his child who he has entrusted into my care.
I could not do any of this without Him. I also couldn't do it without Austin by my side. I don't know how single mothers do it. Austin has been such a rock and has helped me so much in every way. I literally could not be a mother without my husband here by my side. Our moms and some of my siblings and friends have also been a huge help, especially the first few weeks. I am grateful for my support system. I would be a mess without them!
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